Dear Daaiyah, My Boyfriend Doesn’t Pick Up His Phone

 

HRT Radio with Daaiyah Cixx and guest, Joyce Schafers answers a “Dear Daaiyah” letter from a member of the HRT Community. She wants to know if she should leave her relationship because her boyfriend never picks up the phone when he is with his son’s mother.

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DEAR DAAIYAH
I am in love with a 45-year-old man. I am a 37-year-old female. I really like this man a lot and when I first met him, I wasn’t sure if we were going to make it. We have been together for 6 months now. When he’s around me, he’s perfect and I have no complaints…
However, I do have complaints and issues when he isn’t around.
1st issue is…..when he is gone and tells me he is helping someone or dealing with his YOUTHFUL son, In particular..he doesn’t always pick up his phone…especially when he is over his son’s mother’s house…he never picks ups the phone whenever I call while he’s dealing with his sons mother. One time I followed him to the house after he told me he was going to be there. I called him while in the home and he didn’t pick up…then I called again and I saw him come out of her house and answer my call when he was approaching his car to go home. When he answered he was truthful by telling me he was just leaving and heading home.
2nd issue is……He doesn’t bring his son around but attends to my children all the time. Why should his son miss out on his time while my sons are enjoying his time?… They could all be enjoying him together…
Sincerely, Should I leave?